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W/slam,
As far as I know, this was just a simple, curious question; not having some nefarious underlying meaning. Nowadays, this event gets used out of context or to fallaciously support bad arguments.
From other narrations we find a few more details regarding the event:
Narrated Jabir:
My father died and left behind seven or nine daughters, and I married a woman. The Prophet (?) said, "Did you get married, O Jabir?" I replied, "Yes." He asked, "Is she a virgin or a matron?" I replied, "She is a matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a virgin girl so that you might play with her and she with you (or, you might make her laugh and she make you laugh)?" I said, "My father died, leaving seven or nine girls (orphans) and I did not like to bring a young girl like them, so I married a woman who can look after them." He said, "May Allah bestow His Blessing on you."
Source: https://sunnah.com/bukhari/80/82
The somewhat important addition being that the Prophet supplicated for Jabir.
You can read other narrations regarding the same event here:
https://sunnah.com/search/?q=why+didn%27t+you+marry+a+virgin
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?90190-Sahih-Bukhari-hadiths-about-preferable-marriage-to-Virgins