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Offline Introvert98

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Also why in Islam are we allowed to have intercourse with female slaves and why do we need 72 virgins in paradise for sexual pleasures.  I thought heaven is meant to be pure, David wood stated that in ibn tarbari it says we will have sex with 100 females a day in paradise and mentioned some hadith about That Allah will allow us to have eternal erections in heaven. Auodibillah.


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 I will inshallah continue later. Brother I suggest that you should avoid those Islamophobic sites. It will weaken your faith.

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Creation of heaven is incomparable to that of earth. And believers will be rewarded with Kings-esque lifestyle  with guardians and wives. Also the recreation of believing Women of earth will be made much prettier than the 72 virgins that have transparent body and pearl like eyes.
http://www.answering-christianity.com/bible_errors_regarding_heaven.htm

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As for the Messiah's who will intercede transgressing Jews, his life gets prolonged by God as mentioned in Isaiah 53. Prolonged means his life too will have an end.
Also nowhere can one find anything like waking up after death and stay on earth for forty days before getting lifted to heaven in Isaiah 53:8.
http://www.answering-christianity.com/isaiah_53.htm

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The following is according to my understanding and knowledge which could be faulty.

Wives

There are traditions attributed to Lady Aisha saying that she and other wives of the Prophet used to be amazed at the strength of the Prophet, when he used to have marital relations with all his wives in one night. I don't know about the reliability of the narration, it is possible that it would have been created by some later generation person in order to increase the status of the Prophet (from their point of view). Whether true or not, it doesn't really matter, because in Islam it is one of the most important responsibilities of husbands to fulfill the marital needs of their wives and the same goes for wives regarding their husbands. It is a very acceptable reason for divorce if the spouse is unable to fulfill the marital needs. Therefore, the Prophet was also fulfilling his responsibilities as a husband.

Slaves

First of all, there is nothing in Islam that says this is a recommended or desired practice. In Islam most, if not all, laws are based on creating more good in the society as compared to the possible harm. This concept is called the risk-benefit ration, i.e. whether the potential risk of an action is more than its potential benefit. Out of several different methods through which a person could have been made a slave, before Islam, only two methods: (1) through war (in which case from what I've read, the Prophet only took slaves when the enemy was also in the practice of doing so, this was possibly done in order to deter the enemy) and (2) being born to slave parents.

According to what historical records tell us, slavery was deeply integrated into the society, slaves used to work on the crops, took the caravans, pretty much did all the work. In such a case, it would have been extremely difficult and harmful to remove slavery overnight. In our modern society, a comparison can be drawn with a country trying to get rid of the system of interest in the economy. Therefore, it had to be removed gradually. When a female slave bore the child of her master, it automatically meant that she could no longer be sold (or transferred) to anyone else, and additionally, on the death of her master she would become free. Along with integrating the practice of freeing slaves as expiation of most, if not all, major sins, this was another method to eventually decrease slavery in the society. Furthermore, these children had the same rights as other children of the master, therefore they were able to lead good lives. As rich families used to have more slaves, these children grew up in high status homes and from Islamic history, we find that many times they ended up being commanders of Muslim armies, ambassadors, governors and sometimes, if I I'm not mistaken, even kings. Some scholars also give the reason that this allowance was also a method for decreasing the possibility of slave women going into prostitution to fulfill their needs.

Unfortunately, the later generations of Muslims misused these allowances and used them as loopholes to fulfill their material needs (the Arab slave trades), similar to what ISIS is doing nowadays.

Heaven

Of all the religions that I have studied, Islam appears to be the most tangible and logical. By tangible I mean concepts like, Muslims not believing in persons directly guided by God (like the popes), all humans can make mistakes; similarly most of our laws have a beneficial risk-benefit ratio. This is the likely reason why some laws during Islam's times were different as compared to those before Islam. In Islam, the family is considered as an institute and has an extremely important and tangible role to play protecting and building-up the society. For this reason there are harsh laws prohibiting fornication and adultery to safeguard the family system. There are other reasons too, but according to scholars these are the important ones. If these were not the objectives of Islam, some scholars even argue that possibly Islam wouldn't have prohibited such things or at-least not as harshly.

These safeguarding objectives are not needed in heaven. Islamic scripture tells us that humans will get whatever they desire in heaven and if that means sexual pleasure, then they will have the opportunity for it too. Exactly, what is the meaning of "pure". Religious people base their moralities on what God allows and what He prohibits. Based on this logic, if God allows something, how can that be considered as impure. Looking at this issue from a secular objective point of view, if actions do not hurt others why are they to be considered as wrong. I believe this concept of "pure" comes from some intangible idealistic mentality through which the Christians started to regard even marital sex as a sin. They considered it as an undesirable thing; it served a purpose otherwise it was a sin to even enjoy it. To get somewhat explicit here, this is a reason the missionary position got its name, because those people thought that this was the only way to have marital relations which would not be "sinful".

An interesting comparison that can be made here, is the prohibition of alcohol in this world. If the harmful effects of alcohol are removed, would there be any need for it to remain prohibited in heaven?

Regarding the Hadith, from what I have researched, I don't think these are Hadith, although, the Islamic concept of humans getting whatever they desire in heaven, could be construed in such a manner.
Regarding "eternal erections in heaven" read:
http://thefactsaboutislam.blogspot.com/2013/06/eternal-erections-muslim-explains-so.html

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As for sex with 9 wives. It depends on how one interpret the phrase "to go round his wives" whether it means to just check each wife, or to fulfill needs of all wives.

Interpreting it as sexual relation should not be an issue as fulfilling marital relation with wives is a covenant from God. Adultery is forbidden.

http://www.letmeturnthetables.com/2008/08/prophet-muhammad-visiting-all-his-wives.html

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Although the LetMeTurnTheTables article gives plausible arguments but it appears that Imam Bukhari understood it in the original sense, because of the name he gives to the chapter of a similar narration which is: "Chapter: Having sexual intercourse and repeating it. And engaging with one's own wives and taking a single bath (after doing so)"
Source: http://sunnah.com/bukhari/5

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The author LMTTT is in his opinion that Aisha explained in detail that there is dividing days for wives. And also checking on each one. Hence the phrase going round from Aisha's is referring to above from the LMTTT author's view point.

While the companion's definition of going round wives is having intercourse with several wives in one night. So it can be from just one wives to several wives a night.

As the companions are fond with narrations on prophet Sulaiman going round with his wives in one night.

Having intercourse with all wives is not an issue as well if one has the strength to do so.

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why in Islam are we allowed to have intercourse with female slaves ?

ISLAM PROMOTE MARRING SLAVE GIRL:

4: 25. And whoever of you have not the means wherewith to wed free, believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those (captives and slaves) whom your right hands possess, and Allâh has full knowledge about your Faith, you are one from another. Wed them with the permission of their own folk (guardians, Auliyâ' or masters) and give them their Mahr according to what is reasonable; they (the above said captive and slave-girls) should be chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boy-friends. And after they have been taken in wedlock, if they commit illegal sexual intercourse, their punishment is half that for free (unmarried) women. This is for him among you who is afraid of being harmed in his religion or in his body; but it is better for you that you practice self-restraint, and Allâh is Oft¬Forgiving, Most Merciful.
24: 32. And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the woman who has no husband) and (also marry) the Sâlihûn (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allâh will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allâh is All-Sufficient for His creatures' needs, All-Knowing (about the state of the people).
Muslim :: Book 43 : Hadith 7158
ISLAM ORDERED FREEING /MARRING /GIVE EDUCATION /KEEP GOOD MANNERS TO SLAVE GIRL
Bukhari :: Book 4 :: Volume 52 :: Hadith 255
  Bukhari :: Book 4 :: Volume 55 :: Hadith 655
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 46 :: Hadith 720,723
Bukhari :: Book 7 :: Volume 62 :: Hadith 20, 98
 Muslim :: Book 8 : Hadith 3327,3327
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith 285
Narrated Abu Musa Al-Ash'ari:
Allah's Apostle said, "If a person teaches his slave girl good manners properly, educates her properly, and then manumits and marries her, he will get a double reward. And if a man believes in Jesus and then believes in me, he will get a double reward. And if a slave fears his Lord (i.e. Allah) and obeys his masters, he too will get a double reward."
Prophet did it:
Bukhari :: Book 5 :: Volume 59 :: Hadith 513
Narrated 'Abdul 'Aziz bin Suhaib:
Anas bin Malik said, "The Prophet took Safiya as a captive. He manumitted her and married her." Thabit asked Anas, "What did he give her as Mahr (i.e. marriage gift)?" Anas replied. "Her Mahr was herself, for he manumitted her."
Muslim :: Book 10 : Hadith 3901
Jabir (Allah be pleased with him) reported: There came a slave and pledg- ed allegiance to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) on migration; he (the Holy Prophet) did not know that he was a slave. Then there came his master and demanded him back, whereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: Sell him to me. And he bought him for two black slaves, and he did not afterwards take allegiance from anyone until he had asked him whether he was a slave (or a free man)
Bukhari :: Book 1 :: Volume 8 :: Hadith 367
Marrying slave girl with wrong intention prohibited:
4:25 And whoever of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess, and Allah has full knowledge about your faith, you are one from another.Wed them with the permission of their own folk (guardians) and give them their due in a good manner; they should be chaste, not fornicators, nor promiscuous……..
Bukhari :: Book 7 :: Volume 62 :: Hadith 29
Narrated 'Ursa:
that he asked 'Aisha regarding the Verse: 'If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans (4.3) She said, "O my nephew! This Verse refers to the orphan girl who is under the guardianship of her guardian who likes her beauty and wealth and wishes to (marry her and) curtails her Mahr. Such guardians have been forbidden to marry them unless they do justice by giving them their full Mahr, and they have been ordered to marry other than them. The people asked for the verdict of Allah's Apostle after that, so Allah revealed: 'They ask your instruction concerning the women . . . whom you desire to marry.' (4.127) So Allah revealed to them that if the orphan girl had beauty and wealth, they desired to marry her and for her family status. They can only marry them if they give them their full Mahr. And if they had no desire to marry them because of their lack of wealth and beauty, they would leave them and marry other women. So, as they used to leave them, when they had no interest, in them, they were forbidden to marry them when they had such interest, unless they treated them justly and gave them their full Mahr
Slave rape prohibited:
Malik :: Book 36 : Hadith 36.16.14
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.2.13
Slave prostitution prohibited:
24:33. and let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His Bounty. And such of your slaves as seek a writing (of emancipation), give them such writing, if you know that they are good and trustworthy. And give them something yourselves out of the wealth of Allah which He has bestowed upon you. And force not your maids to prostitution, if they desire chastity, in order that you may make a gain in the (perishable) goods of this worldly life. But if anyone compels them (to prostitution), then after such compulsion, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to those women, i.e. He will forgive them because they have been forced to do this evil action unwillingly).
Bukhari :: Book 7 :: Volume 63 :: Hadith 260
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet forbade taking the earnings of a slave girl by prostitution.
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.3.16
Malik related to me from Yahya ibn Said that Sulayman ibn Yasar informed him that Abdullah ibn Abbas ibn Abi Rabia al-Makhzumi said, "Umar ibn al-Khattab gave me orders about the slaves of Quraysh and we flogged some of the slave-girls of the muslim lands fifty times each for fornication."
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 82 :: Hadith 822,823
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 46 :: Hadith 731
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 36 :: Hadith 483
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 34 :: Hadith 440 ,436,439
Muslim :: Book 43 : Hadith 7180, 7181
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.3.16
Sex with slave act of ignorance:
Muslim :: Book 40 : Hadith 6856
……Qatada said: Abu Abdullah, would this happen? Thereupon he said: Yes. By Allah, I found this in the days of ignorance that a person grazed the goat of a tribe and did not find anyone but their slave-girl (and he did not spare her) but committed adultery with her.
Muslim :: Book 20 : Hadith 4554
It his been narrated through a different chain of transmitters, on the authority of Hudhaifa b. al-Yaman who said: Messenger of Allah, no doubt, we had an evil time (i. e. the days of Jahiliyya or ignorance) and God brought us a good time (i. e. Islamic period) through which we are now living Will there be a bad time after this good time? He (the Holy Prophet) said: Yes. I said: Will there be a good time after this bad time? He said: Yes. I said: Will there be a bad time after good time? He said: Yes.
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 83 :: Hadith 21
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet said, "The most hated persons to Allah are three: (1) A person who deviates from the right conduct, i.e., an evil doer, in the Haram (sanctuaries of Mecca and Medina); (2) a person who seeks that the traditions of the Pre-lslamic Period of Ignorance, should remain in Islam (3) and a person who seeks to shed somebody's blood without any right."
Slave illegal sexual intercourse /adultery prohibited:/blame prohibited even sinner /
Bukhari :: Book 7 :: Volume 62 :: Hadith 148
Narrated 'Aisha:
Allah's Apostle said, "O followers of Muhammad! There is none, who has a greater sense of Ghira (self-respect) than Allah, so He has forbidden that His slave commits illegal sexual intercourse or His slave girl commits illegal sexual intercourse. O followers of Muhammad! If you but knew what I know, you would laugh less and weep more!"
4:24,70:30
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 34 :: Hadith 435, 436, 362 ,363
Muslim :: Book 17 : Hadith 4219,4221,4224
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.2.13
Dawud :: Book 12 : Hadith 2268
Adultery with slave girl prohibited, stone death punishment:
Dawud :: Book 38 : Hadith 4405
Narrated Nu'aym ibn Huzzal:
Yazid ibn Nu'aym ibn Huzzal, on his father's authority said: Ma'iz ibn Malik was an orphan under the protection of my father. He had illegal sexual intercourse with a slave-girl belonging to a clan. My father said to him: Go to the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) and inform him of what you have done, for he may perhaps ask Allah for your forgiveness. His purpose in that was simply a hope that it might be a way of escape for him.
So he went to him and said: Apostle of Allah! I have committed fornication, so inflict on me the punishment ordained by Allah. He (the Prophet) turned away from him, so he came back and said: Apostle of Allah! I have committed fornication, so inflict on me the punishment ordained by Allah. He (again) turned away from him, so he came back and said: Apostle of Allah! I have committed fornication, so inflict on me the punishment ordained by Allah.
When he uttered it four times, the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) said: You have said it four times. With whom did you commit it?
He replied: With so and so. He asked: Did you lie down with her? He replied: Yes. He asked: Had your skin been in contact with hers? He replied. Yes. He asked: Did you have intercourse with her? He said: Yes. So he (the Prophet) gave orders that he should be stoned to death.
Dawud :: Book 38 : Hadith 4443
Narrated An-Nu'man ibn Bashir:
Habib ibn Salim said: A man called AbdurRahman ibn Hunayn had intercourse with his wife's slave-girl. The matter was brought to an-Nu'man ibn Bashir who was the Governor of Kufah. He said: I shall decide between you in accordance with the decision of the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him). If she made her lawful for you, I shall flog you one hundred lashes. If she did not make her lawful for you, I shall stone you to death. So they found that she had made her lawful for him. He, therefore, flogged him one hundred lashes.
Dawud :: Book 38 : Hadith 4444
Narrated An-Nu'man ibn Bashir:
The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: about a man who had (unlawful) intercourse with his wife's slave girl: If she made her lawful for him, he will be flogged one hundred lashes; if she did not make her lawful for him, I shall stone him.
Muslim :: Book 17 : Hadith 4201
Muslim :: Book 37 : Hadith 6676
Muslim :: Book 40 : Hadith 6856
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.2.13
Adultery with slave girl prohibited, beat punishment for weak person: even a weak person has no escape from the punishment of sex with slave.
Dawud :: Book 38 : Hadith 4457
Narrated Some Companions:
AbuUmamah ibn Sahl ibn Hunayf said that some companions of the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) told that one of their men suffered so much from some illness that he pined away until he was skin and bone (i.e. only a skeleton). A slave-girl of someone visited him, and he was cheered by her and had unlawful intercourse with her. When his people came to visit the patient, he told them about it.
He said: Ask the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) about the legal verdict for me, for I have had unlawful intercourse with a slave-girl who visited me.
So they mentioned it to the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) saying: We have never seen anyone (so weak) from illness as he is. If we bring him to you, his bones will disintegrate. He is only skin and bone. So the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) commanded them to take one hundred twigs and strike him once.
Slave sex prohibited:
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 93 :: Hadith 506
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
That during the battle with Bani Al-Mustaliq they (Muslims) captured some females and intended to have sexual relation with them without impregnating them. So they asked the Prophet about coitus interrupt us. The Prophet said, "It is better that you should not do it, for Allah has written whom He is going to create till the Day of Resurrection." Qaza'a said, "I heard Abu Sa'id saying that the Prophet said, 'No soul is ordained to be created but Allah will create it."
Muslim :: Book 8 : Hadith 3432
Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah her pleased with him) reported that at the Battle of Hanain Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger (may peace te upon him) seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists……….
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 79 :: Hadith 706
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 77 :: Hadith 600
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 46 :: Hadith 718
Malik :: Book 29 : Hadith 29.32.95
Muslim :: Book 17 : Hadith 4201
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 34 :: Hadith 432
Forced sex with slave punishment let free the slave/wife slave sex punishment equal slave give to the wife with permission of wife:
Dawud :: Book 38 : Hadith 4445
Narrated Salamah ibn al-Muhabbaq:
The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) made a decision about a man who had intercourse with his wife's slave-girl as follows. If he forced her, she is free, and he shall give her mistress a slave-girl similar to her; if she asked him to have intercourse voluntarily, she will belong to him, and he shall give her mistress a slave-girl similar to her.
Dawud :: Book 12 : Hadith 2304
Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah:
Musaykah, a slave-girl of some Ansari, came and said: My master forces me to commit fornication. Thereupon the following verse was revealed: "But force not your maids to prostitution (when they desire chastity)."
Forced sex with slave prohibited:
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.2.13
Malik related to me from Nafi that Safiyya bint Abi Ubayd informed him that a man who had had intercourse with a virgin slave-girl and made her pregnant was brought to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq. He confessed to fornication, and he was not muhsan. Abu Bakr gave the order and he was flogged with the hadd punishment. Then he was banished to Fadak, (thirty miles from Madina).
Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.3.15
Malik related to me from Nafi that a slave was in charge of the slaves in the khumus and he forced a slave-girl among those slaves against her will and had intercourse with her. Umar ibn al-Khattab had him flogged and banished him, and he did not flog the slave-girl because the slave had forced her.
Bukhari:6949
Muslim :: Book 43 : Hadith 7181
Dawud :: Book 12 : Hadith 2304
Dawud :: Book 38 : Hadith 4445
Malik :: Book 54 : Hadith 54.16.42

Has not the Qur'an actually legalized adultery by allowing for
the master to have sexual relationships with his female slaves?

Female slaves are the natural by-product of the system of
slavery. The situation that prevailed in all societies where the institution
of slavery existed was such that slave women were used at will and
were employed to gain economic advantage by inciting them towards
prostitution. As for Islam, it provided for a facility which would, in the
course of one generation, bring an end to the system through the slave
women themselves.
The slave woman is the property of the master. However, the
master has no right, whatsoever, to incite her towards adultery. Like
the male slaves, the female slaves, too, have rights of their own. It is
the duty of the master to provide her with food, shelter, clothes and
other necessities. Moreover, the Qur'an has asked the owner to make
the necessary arrangements for her marriage as well (Qur'an 24:32).
This, in effect, means that the Qur'an has prompted the owner
towards having sexual relations with an unmarried female slave. This
permission is however restricted to the owner alone. No one else is
allowed to use her in this fashion even if it be with the permission of
the master!
In giving birth to the child of the master, the slave woman
becomes entitled to new rights. Thenceforth, the master has no right
to sell her. She becomes the mother of her master’s children. These
children, too, become entitled to all the rights and privileges enjoyed by
the master’s other children. Islam disagrees with the Jewish stand
that the children born through a slave woman have none of the rights
that should naturally be given to them by virtue of paternity. These
children are, in all respects, his own children. There is to be no
discrimination of any kind between them and the other children. With
the death of the master, the slave woman, who is the mother of his
children, becomes a free woman. She is then protected by her own
children. They, too, like the other children, will becomes entitled to a
share in their father’s inheritance.
The permission to accept slave women as one’s life-partner
was, in fact, a provision which would, in the course of one generation,
cut out the very root of slavery. In reality, therefore, the permission
granted for having relations with slave women was one among the
many unique steps taken by Islam in practically eradicating slavery.
It is not possible to equate the permission given for having
relations with slave women to adultery. These acts stand at two extreme
poles. One is the case of the woman who lives under her master
enjoying the protection that he confers upon her. It is a relationship in
which he fully agrees to take up the responsibilities that may result as
a product of that relationship. It is a relationship in which her personality,
beyond the contours defined by sex, is accorded full recognition. It is
a relationship which opens to her the door to freedom. As for the
second, it is nothing but a carnal relationship with a prostitute without
any sort of commitment. The position of the prostitute is, in fact, much
worse than that of the slave woman. For, she is nothing more than a
soul less animal. Her function is restricted solely to the gratification of
the animal passions of man. There is not even a grain of love and
compassion in that relationship, not the slightest touch of personal
fulfillment even. It is but a transaction made solely for money. Flesh
trade! The man who comes for the satisfaction of carnel of his desire
is never prepared to take up the responsibility that may accrue from it.
He has no obligation towards her. She is only an animal destined to
satisfy his sexul appetite. Each one of her relationships will serve only
to immerse her even deeper into the mire that is the inhumanity of
prostitution. Even the very dream of freedom is alien to her. She is one
doomed to embrace the loneliness of orphanhood when in a diseased
state, with her skin wrinkled and faded, she ends up being the object
of nobody’s concern.
What, then, of the tradition which lays open, before the slave,
the very door to freedom? And what of the rottings system which
drives the woman from one dependence to the other? Any comparison,
whatsoever, between these two is impossible because they stand at
two opposing and extreme poles. One recognized by benign humanism,
the other which leads to depredation and frustration.

Why did the Qur'an not make marriage mandatory for having
sexual relations with the slave woman
?

The Qur'an does provide permission for those who wish to marry
slave women (4:27). Indeed, the Prophet had said that such marriages
will confer a double reward. “He who provides the slave woman under
him with proper manners, provides her with the best education, then
frees her and ultimately marries her will be given a double reward.’’
(Bukhari, Muslim)
The guardian of the slave is the master whether it be a male or
a female slave. The guardianship of the slave woman who is under a
male master rests with that man. Even if she is to be married off, it is
he who will have to carrry it out. It is also he who is to take care of all
her affairs. It is for this very reason that there is not the need for the
act of marrying her. In Islam, marriage is a contract that is solemnized
by the guardian of the woman and the bridegroom. In this case, he is
both the master and bridegroom. Then the marriage ceremony becomes
irrelevant in itself.
The Qur'an instructs that the maximum number of wives for a
man must be four (4:3). Let us suppose that there is a slave woman
under the care of a man who has four wives He cannnot, in that case,
marry her. If he is not ready to grant her freedom, liberation from
dependence will remain for her a dream. She will then be forced to
resort to adultery in her bid to satisfy her sexual desire. But since
there is the law that the master can engage in sexual relations with her
without recourse to marriage, a solution for all such problems manifests
itself. It becomes possible for her to walk into freedom when she
gives birth to her master’s child. It will also be the solution for her
sexual needs. In a society where slavery prevails, if a solution is not
provided for such problems it will lead to a large scale erosion of
values. Along with this, there will also be the problem of the children
born from adulterous relationships. Naturally, they ,too,will end up as
slaves. The end result of all this will be that slavery becomes entrenched
as a system that can, is, no wise, be terminated.
In the case of Islam, however, the provision is made such that
the masters are permitted to have sexual relations with woman slaves,
whereby, within the span of a single generation, slavery is made extinct.
If ‘marriage’ is made a condition for it, it is not possible then to obtain
the results envisaged by Islam. Certainly, all masters would not be
willing to marry their slaves woman Besides, it is impossible for those
who already have four wives.


 

 

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